Tag: Fellowship

Preference Builds Clubs; Grace Builds Churches

Clubs are built on preference.

You join because people share your interests, your temperament, and your expectations.

Clubs are designed for compatibility. When the fit no longer feels comfortable, you simply leave.

But the church is something different entirely. The church is not something we assemble according to our tastes.

Clubs gather around shared hobbies.

Churches gather around a crucified and risen King.

In a club, similarity is strength.

In a church, diversity is design.

The apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 12 that every member of the body is necessary, even the parts that seem weaker. The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you.” What may appear unnecessary or inconvenient is often exactly what God intends for the health of the body.

And in Ephesians 4, Christ gives a variety of gifts to His people so that the whole body might grow. Maturity does not come from uniformity, but from each part working properly in love.

A club protects comfort.

A church produces maturity.

Preference builds something fragile.

Grace builds something enduring.

The local church is not a circle you curate; it is a people God assembles.
It is a covenant family. And grace, not preference, is what holds it together.

The church will not always feel easy. But what grace builds is stronger and far more beautiful than anything our preferences could ever create.

A Box of Chocolates

7098_dtEvery year around the holidays my grandmother would purchase Russell Stover boxes of assorted chocolates.  Lots of them.  (Wow, just thinking about this makes my mouth water.)  Anyway, she always had the chocolates out for family and friends who happened to stop by for a visit.

Motivated, of course, to help my grandmother resist these tiny temptations I would eat as many as possible on every visit.  I had actually become so familiar with these delightful sweets that I could identify them by color, shape, swirl, or just looking at the edges.  Of course the very best way to identify them was to  gently press your finger into the bottom of each one.

Those chocolates were amazing!  (I had to beat my sister to the box in order to get the good ones.)  Some of them had soft creamy centers and some had hard candy centers.  Some had peanut butter, some had caramel, and some had toffee.  Some of them even had peanuts, almonds, or walnuts in the center.

Now let’s be honest here. That pretty well describes any local church family.  Some people are hard, some people are soft, and some people are just nuts covered in chocolate!

One of the key strengths of the Church is that we are not all identical.  Why do I say strength?  Because the watching world looks at this local group of drastically different individuals and marvels at our unity and the deep affection we have for one another (see John 13:34-35; 1 Corinthians 12:12-27; Ephesians 4).

How is this unity amidst such diversity possible?  It is only possibly through the blood of Jesus Christ.  The Apostle Paul said, “For in Him [Jesus Christ] all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, and through Him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross” (Colossians 1:19-20).

Through the precious blood of Jesus Christ we now share the same heavenly Father (John 1:12-13), the same Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 12:13), the same Body (the Church; Ephesians 1:22-23), the same heavenly Destiny (Revelation 21:1–4), and we share the same holy Calling (1 Peter 1:16)!

  • Do you know God’s peace? Romans 3:10-23; 5:8; 6:10-11, 23; 10:9-10, 13
  • If you DO know God’s peace: Romans 12:18; Romans 14:19; 2 Corinthians 13:11; Ephesians 4:3; Colossians 3:15; James 3:18