Gentlemen: Your responsibility in your marriage is not contingent upon how well your wife fulfills hers.
Joy is loving and serving and delighting in your best friend – for the glory of God alone.
Go hug your wife.
“Let your clothes be white all the time, and let not oil be lacking in your head. Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given to you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun.” Ecclesiastes 9:8-9